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So according to fatsecret is it still Friday May 7th or is it Saturday May 8th? It is still Friday here, about 20 minutes to 10 pm and we got home about 40 minutes ago. Long day.
FIL is worse, not better. They think he has pneumonia on top of everything else. The Lung doctor does not believe his mental status will improve with time. The Heart doctor thinks it might. He is not on a breathing machine yet but that is one of the options. The last two operations he had a tough time getting off of the ventilator after surgery. He was in bed, unresponsive, on oxygen, on antibiotics, opened his eyes a couple of times, grunted, groaned, twitched, and that was about it. His heart is also not beating evenly I think they call it afibrillation or something like that.
To top it off the fake MIL's daughter showed up at the hospital. The one who took the car. Long story short we told her she couldn't drive the car and we wanted the keys. She said to meet us at my FIL's place. Turns out fake MIL is in the hospital now too and she has been staying at their apartment. When we arrived she wouldn't let us in and called the police. She is a nut case just like her mother. The first thing she said to me was "you're a social worker why don't you do something about all of this" (I am not a social worker by the way). I told her I would let the police handle it (the officer was there by then). The next time I opened my mouth she told me to "stop talking" "I was making everything worse and she didn't want to hear from me" ... just like her mother. It was quite a scene. The officer said it was a civil matter and he couldn't do anything. But ... we ended up with FIL's personal papers, his firearm, and his car so that was good.
My hubby is pissed beyond belief. It was a tough, tough day. I'm tired.
Anne aka jessyline ... yes .. I caved and weighed in yesterday!! And I had lost. I was pleasantly surprised. I tried really hard today not to let the stress get to me and begin stress eating. I did pretty good.
My gut tells me FIL is on his way out of this world. It is hard to see him so incapacitated. He has always been a very vibrant, animated man. He is down to 130 lbs and is just skin and bones. We're hanging in there ... what can you do or say? Life happens, people die. I just wish the drama didn't have to be a part of it. It is such a waste of time, energy, and we should be able to focus on just being there for my FIL.
Well I'm going to post this to see what date comes up!! LOL!! Thanks, as always for listening to me ... Info ... get yourself back in gear man ... I'm counting on you!!!
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Rasva: 35,06g | Prot: 70,04g | Hh: 128,00g.
Aamiainen: Fiber One, cracked wheat bread, Lite Jarlsberg, large egg, water, butter. Lounas: Weight Watchers Yogurt. Päivällinen: Corona Light Beer, naked chicken salad. Välipalat/Muut: Chocolate Indulgence Mousse Temptations, Special K Protein Bar. lisää...
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2971 kcal
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Toimistotyö - 9 tuntia, Ajaminen - 2 tuntia, Precor Elliptical - 36 minuuttia, Lepo - 4 tuntia ja 24 minuuttia, Nukkuminen - 8 tuntia. lisää...
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Hi Moose, what a day you had...From what you said, I understand your FIL is not doing so well. it's not a life to be on an hospital bed, on oxygen and maybe on a breathing machine soon. I wish you had more time to spend with him than with these crazy people around. I can't believe you had to face the police. Hopefully the daughter will stay away now... You did great with your eating, I know this kind of day can be so devastating and end up to overeating, that is human to seek comfort whereever we can find it. Now you need to rest, to let the stress level go down. Please take good care of you and your husband. ((((hugs))))
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: jessyline
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Sorry to hear that FIL is still confused, give it another day or so but, if after that he doesn't come out of it, it would begin to appear as if something may have not gone quite right. My prayers are with you all.
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: information
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Moose you certainly had a rough night. I am glad you got some of what you came for and so sorry you had to go through all that to get it. This is a hard time for you and your husband and you certainly don't deserve to have all the added drama in your lives right now. I am hoping that you got some rest last night and that today will be a calmer day for you. Please take care of yourself. Also all this going on and you had time to comment on my journal. Thank you Moose for being such a great buddy.
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: chattycathy1955
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Wow thats a lot of drama for one day - sorry you had to go through that. I wonder if the house /appartment that FIL and fake MIL live in is under his name, her name, or both - depending on which it is, when he passes, that could be a huge problem for you guys.... Take a deep breath, maybe a nice bath, and relax. Feel better, and try not to let this upset you or your husband to much. HUGS
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: MomofTwoGirls
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I am sorry for your FIL and for the drama. I know it is difficult but if that woman is squatting I would start eviction proceedings immediately if it were me. Perhaps if the landlord were informed he could tell her to get out and she might feel obliged to do so since it is his property??? I find my blood boiling for you! How dare these people do this! I am so sorry you are going through all this! It really gets my goat when people are so selfish and nasty to people who do not deserve it and you most certainly do not! {{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: dawn0001
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Hope things are better with FIL and stress levels.
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: information
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Thanks for stopping by my journal :) I certainly feel your pain here. Crazy people (I have more than my fair share of it in my family too) make difficult situations practically impossible. Hoping for better days for you ahead!
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: k8yk
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Hi Moose, I hope you got some rest and things are better today. You're in my thoughts.
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: jessyline
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Hi Moose just thinking about you and thought I would drop in and say hi.
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: chattycathy1955
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Thank you all. FIL was a little more communicative today but still not well. He is on oxygen, blood, antibiotics, gave him medication for his heart, and also insulin as his blood sugar was too high. He can't understand why we won't give him water or juice. He aspirates because he can't swallow correctly. So sad. He seems to be responding well to me which is a blessing but I am exhausted. More time will tell if he'll get better or pass on. It is very emotional as I am sure many of you understand. The good news is that only immediate relatives are allowed in now, so no worries about fake MIL or her psychotic adult children.
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: madaboutmoose
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left a message for you on my journal
08 touko 10 jäseneltä: chattycathy1955
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