Hang in there, lady. We can't make them not do something they insist on doing. It is hard though. I hope that he's at least a "happy drunk" and not one of the abusive kind. That is something that I couldn't live with. Been there (many years ago) and will never go back to that kind of life again. *hugs* and prayers And, going back to school - I'm impressed and happy for you. Hope that is going well!!